Choose Happiness. Choose Confidence.

Happiness is a choice. Happiness is something, we can all feel but sometimes, you just have one of those days where nothing seems to be going right… Sound similar? Here is the thing, life isn't about pleasing everyone; it's about doing the right thing and pleasing yourself. Recently, I've had one of those days where I woke up and felt like the world was on my shoulders; not to mention, I've been an 'agony aunt' to so many over the last few weeks, which made me realise that actually you should grab every opportunity or chance that you get in life and sometimes, you can be mistreated but it's how you overcome and choose happiness and rebuild your confidence. 

Be happy. Be yourself. If others don't like it, leave them be because for every minute you're sad or upset, you lose a minute of living your life and being happy. I know it isn't as easy as just saying "be happy" but you always have to look at the bigger picture; sometimes, I have those days where I want to change everything about my life and myself but when a stranger comments on how beautiful your confidence is, you must smile and think if you don't like something about you, someone else just might.

One of the keys to happiness is confidence. Just think if you have the courage to stand up in front of people, admit when you're scared and take the responsibility, everyone thought you couldn't achieve; it is everything you need that helps you along the way to a healthier and happier state of mind.

You have to begin everyday like you ended your last… Happy! Here are a few tips to choosing happiness and building your confidence; to make yourself the best you can be: 

Choose… to be the best. 

Choose… a good attitude. 

Choose… to look at what you do have, not on what you don't have. 

Choose… the right people. 

Choose… to smile! 

Choose… to embrace everything that life hands to you. 

Choose… to be honest. 

Choose… to do something you love. 

Sometimes, looking at your life from the outside, in tends to be a better option than looking from the inside, out. I mean, you need to look at everything that you don't need or has an affect on your life; take control, sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. 

Choose Happiness. Because it's your choice to do so. Not everybody else's. Au Revoir! 
Love, 
Lauren xo