It's Okay To...

Life is interesting. Sometimes it throws everything at us all at once; other times it dip-feeds us problems that we have to deal with head on. One day this week, I was mining my own business purchasing my usual medium-sized beverage, flavoured with either Cinnamon or Vanilla - believe it or not that life or death decision of what coffee syrup to purchase, comes down to a moment of spontaneity. Anyhoo during my purchase, I overheard two girls discussing life and the most important fact of the day was that Girl A (let's keep it anonymus - more fun that way) needed to buy that skirt from Topshop because Girl A and B needed to fit in with Girl C at school as she was popular, especially with the boys. But it got me thinking, how did I ever survive secondary school? But more importantly, it got me thinking why is it so difficult to be different these days and the fact is that it is okay to things that make you different. 

So here are a few thoughts that went through my head, when thinking about what it's okay to do:

1. Cry over nothing at all. 
2. Laugh uncontrollably at things that no one else finds funny. A little awkward at times though.
3. Stay in on a Friday night. Disney DVDs and Chocolate anymore? 
4. Talk to your pets. I'm pretty sure that they understand you. 
5. Not wanting to go out on a wet and windy day. 
6. Be happy. Never let anyone drag you down. 
7. Put all your DVDs into alphabetial order. It doesn't make you strange, just extremely organised.
8. Look at the desserts on a menu before looking at the mains when you go to a restaurant. 
9. Be a #Directioner.  
10. Cut out those who doubt what you can really do. 
11. Quote F.R.I.E.N.D.S or Mean Girls on a daily basis.
12. Not have a boyfriend. 
13. Treat yourself every once in a while. 
14. Hold your hands up and admit you may of made a mistake. The important thing is that you learn from it.
15. Enjoy a colouring book as a adult. It's very therapeutic! 
16. Still sing every lyric to a Disney movie. 
17. Act confident; even if you're shaking like a leaf inside.
18. Be proud of achieving a goal, big or small. It's your life. 
19. Think that you look great. Definite confident booster. 
20. Only take 5 mintues to do your make-up, who can tell anyway?
21. Not to like the same things as everyone else. 
22. Take your time in facing the world.
23. Be honest when giving out any advice. 
24. Not have a favourite colour.
25. Be you. 

Is there anything that you think it's okay to do? Anyway until the next time, Au Revoir! 

Love,

Lauren xo